So is it just me, or has the past week been populated with a wide variety of, we’ll politely say, ‘characters,’ aggressively putting forward their own agendas and living in their own bubbles? The sane have gone quiet; though still communicating they’re just not out there, pounding the pavement, the way our more lively friends are. It seems to be a matter of attention seeking crossed with a desire to persuade others to do what they want. Maybe the hallmark is their sureness: they are sure you want what they’re selling, sure you’ll want to drop everything to do their bidding, sure that what they’re calling for, believing, or spreading around is ‘the Truth’–and yet another hallmark of this breed is that, though they’re asking for something, they aren’t waiting to find out if they’ll get it–instead they draw their own conclusions, and begin to spread those suppositions. And this group seems to have self-explanatory subsets elaborating on their incentive to contact: the provocateurs and the ‘poor lil’ ol’ mes.’
So am I the only one faced with this variety of encounters, or are you experiencing it, too? And, since I believe nothing is random (or truly without meaning) I must ask why this is part of my experience at this time. When we have experiences like this, it’s typically one of two things: either we’re acting out, expressing our single-minded, Self-absorbed crazy somewhere,and we need to recognize it, or we’re to learn how to handle this energy in others. This time, I think I’m safe in saying that for me, it’s about handling the energy in others–and what a ride it’s been.
Where do we spot this trend astrologically? Maybe in the past week’s opposition of Vesta to Neptune, challenging us to choose: are we rooted in our most sacred values, or in our more transitory ideals, fantasies, or delusions? For part of the time, Neptune was planet of latest degree, suggesting it had a strong influence on the general atmosphere. Supplanted by Venus for a few days, we may have seen a surge of Venusian influences, expressions of real love, generosity, jealousy, covetousness, envy, and beauty–and now Chiron has passed Neptune and is the energy of the endgame, calling on all our skills, if we’re the responder, and stimulating all our wounds, if we’re the one acting out.
I think the Moon in Capricorn is the prevailing influence today, aspects it makes not being anything that feels (to me) terribly important, one way or the other. This suggests, especially when applied to the above described dilemmas, that maintaining firm boundaries, obeying established ‘rules,’ and being respectful are the best coping mechanisms and should be priorities.
Remember when I told about walking along the street and the pay phone rang, my own personal Matrix moment? Well it happened again yesterday, and I only have one question: who’s calling? (See the original here https://juliedemboski.wordpress.com/2009/09/03/alices-matrix-logos-the-upcoming-merc-retro-and-in-consultation/)
And have a great one! Need more on March influences? Curious about the (I think) wowza traits indicated by Zeus (it’s what I believe may be the male version of ‘The Devouring Parent’ a Father to Pluto’s Mother)? Love the questions of history? Wondering about the influence of intercepted Houses? Explore it all here http://dogandsunflower.wordpress.com/eclipse-in-depth-astrology-for-the-21st-century/
Today’s Link: a little more on the Mars retro meaning http://www.pandoraastrology.com/blog/odysseus-resourceful-mars

my guess is that the characters are being most effected by Mars about to do a U-turn on last July’s big eclipse degree. asteroid Atropos is in there too so it’s not for the faint hearted.
Interesting! Isn’t Atropos the one who ‘cuts the thread’? So is it an actual fear of death that drives them? No, I’ve gone too far. Thanks for chiming in, Jamie!
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yes, that’s the one. Karen at Ravenesque posted about the 3 Fates yesterday, very interesting: http://ravenesque.me/?p=2382
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This week left a metallic taste in my mouth.
Ah! A vote for Mars–thanks, MIchelle!
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Julie…this is amazing. I’m experiencing this exact thing. I am one of the sane ones trying to lay low. A friend of over 30 years, with a packed 12th house, and her own worst enemy, has sabotaged her own life. Even though she has a fortune in the bank, she stops paying her mortgage is forced into a short sale, unable to purchase another home due to poor credit. Then she hooks up with a guy who lives over a thousand miles away hoping that he’ll wanna ‘put a ring on it’. When he goes home and that doesn’t happen she thinks she’s having a nervous breakdown and goes on valium. She calls me constantly and if you give her advice she never takes it. Now she’s renting an apartment and calls me up 2 days ago to tell me that I “have to get out there” (to where she is) and see the place so I can help her decorate it. Not asking me, mind you, telling me. And then she asks me if my husband isn’t too busy she wants him to paint the place!!! I haven’t spoken to her since Sunday as I can’t believe the behavior. Oh, I almost forgot…I’m an astrologer and she’s studied over the years as well but has a strong Christian bent. When I asked her if she’s going to sign the lease on the new moon on 3/15…she starts telling me that she can’t talk astrology with me any more since its “an abomination before the Lord”. And this new anti astrology philosophy of hers? Its because the man of her dreams didn’t fall madly in love with her so astrology doesn’t work!
So, I’m just going to continue to lay low and see if this blows over. I am so done with people’s manufactured crises and expecting me to bail them out!
Hi Athena–I hear you! You’ve pointed out a trait I missed, the contradictions these people live–and they don’t seem to have a memory for how illogical their philosophies are from one bad decision to the next. Thanks for sharing your friend’s story, and continue to lay low–you’ve inspired my new mantra, ‘No more bail outs!’ jd
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I’m with you sista…
NO MORE BAIL OUTS!!!
btw, this friend is a Libra and I’m a Capricorn…can you say cardinal square? I knew you could!
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I’m trying to stay sane by laying low.
Kudos, A.
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An ex from 2 years ago. 29 July 1959. I had stopped responding to her e-mails, cuz she is nutsy-cuckoo. As a Leo, I guess she couldn’t stand it. The insults, curses and obscenities continued via text for 10 days, since I blocked e-mail and cell calls but couldn’t block texts. Finally she went to apologies. Then asked me to come be with her during a surgery because I was the ‘only’ one she wanted there and she had no one else. (She is a cancer survivor.) I bit, just in case she was telling the truth for once. The minute I texted, “Call me. We’ll discuss it.”, she texted back that she was okay and it ‘didn’t make any difference.’ Guess she was just testing my threshold. But they are out there and active!
Hi Anne–sorry to hear this, but you point out another MO for this operator, the ‘just seeing if you’ll bite,’ taking advantage of your innate compassion. Good that you were true to yourself, and willing to step up for someone in need–their response is their own problem/ karma. Thanks for stopping by and sharing! jd
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Yep.Crazy alcoholic sister I have successfully avoided for 5 years reared her ugly head yesterday and I am proud to say I did not rise to the bait.I held my own and am SO glad that I decided to step away from her and her crazy universe.
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Thanks. I don’t buy into the stuff emotionally any more. But for my own sake, I just couldn’t take the chance that it could be true. My Pluto sits a 2 Leo, so I am getting ready for Mars to trigger a doozy. :-))
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