Rather than give you a tidbit from the current ECLIPSE, I want to talk about some current in-play energies, and my personal experience of them yesterday; after talking to a number of people after the ‘event’, (though not about it) I’m fairly sure most everyone is or has been experiencing at least one of two possible effects: poison bite or poison pen–and figuratively speaking, the two are likely to overlap.
My attention was drawn to what might be floating around when, while on Facebook, I made a very mild comment on a friend’s post. I remember thinking how bland the comment was, and wondering why I was even bothering–and now I see that I was playing a part in this woman’s drama. She answered my comment with a brief tirade that went all over the place (Taxes? Obamacare? Where did that come from? My remark was about how nice it would be if we could all get along, a mutual respect in the health-front arena, with the hope that conventional and alternative methods could both be used, echoing–I thought–what she had said). This screed ended with her calling my comment asinine and asking if I was “happy now?” I wondered what the heck she meant.
Foolishly, perhaps, I tried to answer non-confrontationally, but trying not to allow her to wipe her feet on me, either, which I felt she had done with the name-calling. I stated what I thought she’d said, trying to draw a clearer connection to what I thought had been my innocuous remark, and I said, as it was so obvious to me, that her anger was misdirected and her rudeness uncalled for. I would say I shouldn’t have said that last, though I don’t believe it escalated things; she was already on a tear, and besides it was true: I hadn’t done or said anything to inspire this, and I can be sure of that because I had initially said so little! I don’t mind being called an ass if I am one, but I just did not see where she was getting this, and I thought that would make her realize that what to me seemed an intense overreaction on her part had to have been based on her misunderstanding my comment and my intention.
Her answer was to bring forward more non-sequiturs, including saying that her initial (very vague) post was “based on real-life”, to ask some questions out of left field, toaccuse me of “making things worse” and “kicking her when (she) was down”, and then she did something I find unforgivable: she tried to use my birth chart to insist that I must be “attacking” her, citing my 10th House Saturn as apparently making me aggressive and evil. This kind of condemnation based on some very old interpretations of a singular placement (in this case, based on the charts of world leaders, “gaining power before a pride-induced fall” was the common conception) suggests not only a lack of experience in chart interpretation but a shallow and, yes, vindictive way of thinking. It’s like saying that everyone with a 00 Taurus Sun must be a Hitler–it not only doesn’t follow, it’s insulting.
I never, ever indict someone based on their birth chart–it’s too complicated a subject to blithely pull out one item to try to bludgeon someone with in an argument. In my mind it’s akin to judging or condemning someone because of their skin color, eye color, or the timbre of their speaking voice–it’s something that just is, and to try to gain the upper hand in a dispute (and here I have to say, in my own mind I wasn’t actually in a dispute–I was confused, and a wee bit offended) by labeling a particular facet or aspect of the chart as bad is just wrong. I felt I had been cast against my will as the enemy, receiving vitriol that was unrelated to me or my comment, and that in her mind this justified any underhanded tactic to paint me as bad. I answered that no kick had been administered, and that I was sorry she felt that way–and then unfriended her, not to be vindictive myself, but because nobody needs ‘friends’ who treat them like that.
This occurred in the window for that 10:30 AM Lunar aspect I cited yesterday about housecleaning with the Moon trine Pluto (which can be both symbolic and literal)–but that Plutonian element can also be rage, and clearly, my former friend was immersed in it. The most interesting thing about real-time, current, but swift moving transit interaction with my natal chart was the way retro Merc was heading back toward my Midheaven–easily linking words to public reputation/ career or a public ‘space’–and t Venus, ruler of four planets in my chart, was conjunct my natal Sun–I’m not really sure how that might’ve played in–jealousy? thinking I should ‘pay’ somehow?–while the t Moon was conjunct my Vertex–manifesting something fated, a ‘step along the way’, which I can only think was to draw my attention and prepare me for more of these instances of dealing with someone who is clearly dealing with themselves, and not with me–and with t Neptune opposed my natal Pluto, quincunx my Merc, trine my Neptune, and square my MC, it’s easy to see how I could misunderstand and be misunderstood, but also bringing events that clear out what’s no longer relevant (Pluto), teaching me to adjust and clarify my communications (Merc) and making me a prime target for projection–and this latter has always been so, with my 7th House Pluto often receiving others’ perceptions of themselves and transferring them to their perception of me. She was, in effect, attacking, and looking in the mirror, saw that person who was reflected was attacking, too.
So I got the poison pen, and so did a few others I encountered yesterday–but there were also some poison bites that were quite literal. Spider bites, rashy, pokey injuries, and mystery maladies–and all of this I would hook in the general picture to Mercury retro square Chiron and Neptune, with Saturn trine Chiron-Neptune bringing it into the reality picture. We can see, too, that with Chiron involved we will either get hurt, or add to our own understanding and unique skills. This influence will be in effect through, roughly, the 16th, and again, probably manifesting in intangibles only (since Saturn will have moved on somewhat) starting 9 December and lasting through about the 15th. Stay alert to the possibility that what’s being communicated is much more about the speaker than the recipient, and stay away from spider hidey-holes, real or symbolic–their bite may be especially irritating right now.

I had the poison pen on Holloween night. I told my sister how wonderfull she was, how inspiring & heart warming. Then i said,”Trick or treat” and proceded to say how cruel she was to me since childhood. She was the biggest bully ive ever met. I was just trying to be honest. It was about me I admit. I decided I didn’t want to pretend anymore and i guess I finally wanted to have the last word. But now I kind of regret it (as a gentle pisces) and am feeling like astrolgy pulled my puppet strings again.
Astrology might explain, but it can’t take the blame (or the credit). We make our own choices, and yours are both understandable and forgivable, with your regret speaking of your true nature. What we always know better from these things is how to do better in future
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I guess I’m not alone in this. Sorry to hear about your troubling encounter Julie, but also strangely reassured, so thanks for sharing this. Don’t you just hate it when seemingly innocent, good words go bad? I had a similar encounter, only thankfully mine wasn’t as overt or nasty, nor did either of us resort to personal attacks during our exchanges. Mine involved the bad math used to calculate an amount of money I was to owe as the result of a proposed business transaction. It’s a small ‘green’ business run by a very organized and socially-conscious person with a great deal of compassion; she runs a very tight ship and for the most part, I admire her business model, if not her billing practices.
In our interaction, I could sense how the owner’s impeccable image of herself didn’t allow her to hear what I was saying or to acknowledge her unintentional oversight, which to be fair, only resulted in a billing error a couple of dollars in her favor. Instead of taking a second-look at the figures I’d presented -which were based on the facts involved as well as the business’s own written policies and procedures- the business owner and staff continued to reassure me how they were always very fair and generous with customers. I kept getting the feeling I wasn’t supposed to question their ‘goodness’. Billing can be complicated and I think the fact that I took the time to figure it out only made their heads spin. Try as I might, there was no getting through.
In the end, I felt invisible, unheard, condescended to and slightly ripped off, so I respectfully terminated our business arrangement via the required written notice, which included a brief explanation of why. I’m sure most customers aren’t as comfortable working with figures as I am and accept the amounts they’re given without ever questioning them. Or if they do notice discrepancies, they don’t want to look petty by bringing them up. I’m just not built that way, although our interaction has left me wondering, questioning myself – I know my figures were correct, but that’s not the point. Transiting Neptune and Chiron opposite 12th house Pluto, squaring 9th house Mars and trining 2nd/3rd house Neptune/Mercury/Jupiter. Since T. Mercury is opposite my Mars and square my Pluto, a temporary T-Square is formed.
Thank you for sharing, LB
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Julie, I’m sorry about your being on the receiving of someone else’s cloudy reflection. Thank you for sharing the experience; the astrology lesson was great and I applaud the way you resolved the matter for yourself. To add another confirmation of poisonous bites, yesterday Stanley, our usually stoic Jack Russell, came howling to us on three legs, the fourth leg beginning to swell alamingly from the toes of his paw up over the ankle. We had no idea what had happened, but as we live in Florida and on the water, venomous snake bites are always a concern, as are scorpions. I quickly slathered the area in a blend of essential oils and thank heaven that did the trick. Stanley stopped crying, the swelling started to go down, and within the hour he was using his leg again with no ill effects. My guess now is that a wasp must have stung him, but it’s a mystery–he’s been stung by wasps before and never had such an bad reaction. I’ve not seen anything like it in the eleven years we’ve lived here. I am now on hyper-alert in all directions, thank you!
Thank you, Julia–and I’m so glad to hear Stanley is all right, thanks to your quick thinking!
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No bites. Just sending thanks and purrs. Being without Internet/landline/TV for 10 days was a godsend enabling a tabula rasa beginning with sorting ten years of office/closet clutter,.old family photos, astrological charts…making peace with having the sun and moon in my 12th house…Facebook can wait. As a triple Leo I’ve learned to always ignore anything remotely inflammatory online.
Hi Layla! Funny how it’s all a positive, in the end, isn’t it–which is my point, too. Thank you–I too will ignore the inflammatory from now on 🙂
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What I didn’t say in my comment, is how my encounter with this person -whose inflexible thinking didn’t seem to allow for the possibility of error- brought clearly into focus my *own* inflexibility when it comes to matters of fairness, truth and principle. However unlike the business owner I was interacting with, I’m not nearly so sure of myself and am always willing to question my motives and assumptions, even when I feel certain what I’m asking for is fair and just.
Our interaction has left me wondering . . . was this latest lesson, delivered via current astrological transits, meant to teach me to be *less* assertive on my own behalf, or *more*? When push comes to shove, I can be *very* assertive and often need to be in order to protect my rights. But is what I gain worth the price I pay? It’s never an easy decision for me, especially when it involves the right use of power. My choices seem much clearer when they involve my advocating for someone or something other than myself.
Ok, I’ll stop beating that poor dead horse now.:) Obviously your post touched on a sore spot – I think the spider that bit me was either invisible or disguised as a dove when delivering its venom.
Thanks for adding this, LB. Your thoughtful Self-reflection really gets to the heart of what these influences bring forward. The balance you are working for is a never-ending job; for myself, yesterday simply emphasized that there is no reason to stick around and take abuse in any situation. Could I have misunderstood her as much as she misunderstood me? Absolutely–the problem comes in the willingness to stop and admit everything might not be what we think it is. That willingness allows for accepting imperfections in ourselves and others–but the same situation also serves to reveal who we are dealing with–and as you and I both know, it’s important to factor that in, so that we keep in our lives only that which is appropriate
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Julie, you are the most non-offending person I can think of on the Internet! You seem definitely to have vexed someone who was perhaps more vexed than her initial posting let on and I think your comments were certainly mild enough for her to be ashamed of herself for over-reacting! Hugs, Jude
Jude, thank you so much! It seemed to me that she would’ve realized I hadn’t meant to offend by the time I made a second remark in answer to her upset–but she was not open to anything that recognized I hadn’t any bad intent. Thank you for being so supportive–the first thing that comes to mind for me in any conflict is, ‘What did I do wrong?’ (Too much Libra, and a Pisces Moon!) It took me a while to see that sometimes someone doesn’t want to see that no harm was meant. Hope you and yours are having a great, and not too chilly, November!
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