The Mother of Them All

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Here’s a Mother’s Day re-print, y’all! Happy Mother’s Day!

I really think there are many more maternal figures since Medea lost it who are worse than our subject; but it’s undeniable that her name has become a catchphrase for over-the-top histrionics and abuse (as well as the scourge of dry cleaners, through the admonition, “No! Wire! Hangars!”) Yes, I’m talking about the much maligned, and now nearly iconic symbol of dysfunctional mothering, actress and one-time Pepsico CEO Joan Crawford (23 March 1903, 10:00 PM, San Antonio Texas). To be fair to Joan, after a brief perusal of the mothering related factors in her chart, we’ll look at the chart of the adopted daughter who brought Joan’s alleged behavior to light, Christina Crawford (11 June 1939, 3:00 PM, Los Angeles California).

The attitude toward children in general, and one’s children in particular, is found in the 5th; for the senior Ms. Crawford, this is ruled by Neptune, alerting us immediately to the possibility that this woman does not see children in a realistic light. Neptune is in the 8th at 00 Cancer, implying that she may see children as a resource (something she was indeed accused of, in the sense of using her adopted children as props and a PR ploy), with the 00 placement in Cancer pointing up the emotional newness, even rawness, of Neptune related subjects–interesting in light of her lifelong occupation of film acting, with the 8th placement suggesting that she may have easily gained the support of others in this.

Neptune ruler, and symbol of both the mothering Joan received herself, and the attitude she carried toward mothering in general, the Moon, sits in Aquarius less than one degree from conjunction with Saturn, both in the 3rd. This is a combination for emotional repression, even coldness, as the emotions are processed intellectually; sitting in the 3rd this emphasized the mental approach to emotions, and this was communicated, whether she wanted others to see it or not. The Moon also trines Mars and Earth in Libra, marrying the emotions almost too easily to the material and to the ego and aggressive/ assertive urges, and the Moon sextiles Vesta and the Sun in Aries, making emotional challenges seem like ones that threaten her very identity, and giving the emotional scenario a label of ‘sacred’–no one may contradict her emotional interpretation! The Moon also sextiles Juno in the 1st, making her Self empowered through emotional expression. So, though the emotions are directly suppressed, we see they have plenty of real-world outlets, along with many underlying assumptions about their sacrosanct nature.

Mars, ruler of the Sun and already part of the equation through contact with the Moon, rules the 6th of duty and everyday happenings/ routine, and holds Venus in Aries, valuing the martial spirit and the kind of strict, military style routines her adoptive daughter said were a household staple. Chiron, which can often show a wound that drives much of our compulsive behavior, is isolated in Capricorn at the bottom of the chart, suggesting attempts to stave off the wound and attendant bad feelings about the Self may have taken the form of extreme discipline and repression. Chiron sits at the midpoint of a square between Juno (Self-empowerment) and Jupiter (society), implying she might have seen these two interests as in conflict, setting up a ‘Joan vs. everyone else’ dynamic.

But does she really fit the model of a ‘devouring mother’? Pluto is essential to that picture, and in Joan Crawford’s chart it is chart ruler, posited in the 8th, opposes Uranus, ruler of the 4th, and square Piscean Mercury, which brings us back to Neptune. This suggests that she may have been tempted to destroy the very people and things that supported her, that she may have been in an internal death struggle with her own expression of individuality and a longing to be part of the group, and that she was as likely to communicate destructively as she was to communicate in a way that reflected her (somewhat disconnected from reality–see Neptune’s situation) ideals. Though she certainly qualifies as responding to the devouring Archetype, she seems more a figure to be pitied than condemned; the emotional dysfunctions and woundedness that drove her were not easily dealt with, even for someone Self-aware. Ms. Crawford seems to have been unwilling, and perhaps even unable, to recognize her own distorted nature.

Adopted daughter Christina (11 June 1939, 3:00 PM, Los Angeles California) may have had her own motivations (aside from just revealing events) in writing her tell-all book, ‘Mommie Dearest.’ The view of the mother is found in the 10th, and the experience of mothering received in the state of the Moon. Leo is on the 10th cusp, with ruler Sun in the 8th in Gemini and conjunct Mercury. The Sun is sesquiquadrate Mars in Aquarius at the bottom of the chart–it just happens to conjunct Joan’s Moon. Where else would Christina’s ego and aggressive urges, intellectualtized and hidden deep inside herself, go for outlet, but to Mommie? Her Moon is in Aries (ruled by the instrument of her ego/ anger/ assertion); the Moon rules the 9th of publishing, and is square Chiron (the primal wound) in Cancer (Mom again!) and is conjunct Jupiter, which rules the intercepted 2nd, suggesting that perhaps there was a deeply hidden idea of the Self as ‘big’ and in connection to the other energies may have felt the only way to express this ‘bigness’ was through the emotions (Moon/ Jupiter conjunct).

Of course, just because someone has Jupiter connected to the 2nd, it doesn’t mean they have an inflated Self-worth; but I do remember distinctly that the book featured many episodes where Christina asserted her talents failed to be recognized. I recall wondering what talents and abilities she repeatedly referred to in the abstract, as she seemed to take for granted that the reader assumed her to be almost magically accomplished and talented, though she made virtually no direct reference to exactly what those talents were. 5th House (creativity) Jupiter happens to be, among other salient aspects, trine Pluto, implying a syndrome I’ve seen at work before (and first saw mentioned in the work of the great Grant Lewi): frustrated individuals with Jupiter/ Pluto aspects often believe they possess a whole list of imaginary attributes; the unfortunate part is that they judge themselves on these, and miss connecting with their real talents, and thus short-circuit their opportunities in reality. I believe this particular kind of magical thinking was at work in Christina. Also of note: her Aries Moon is conjunct Joan’s Sun. Reincarnationists will of course enjoy that; I’ll just say that this speaks of the child’s emotional state (and needs) meeting the ego/ identity/ Soul of the mother, head on; could it have felt to both like there was competition for recognition of each of these needs/ energies in the other? Even looking at only the couple of contacts between these two charts we’ve mentioned (Mars/ Moon, Moon/ Sun), we can see that, no matter how Christina was treated, she likely would have seen Joan as trying to outshine her, and perhaps, in disowning her own aggression, Christina more than a little contributed to the situation that came about; even children have the full pallet of urges and attributes–when we forget that, we infantilize (and fail to respect) them, and put our ability to have a fulfilling relationship with them in peril.

Born Today 9 May

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Pierre Puvis de Chavannes - 'Sacred Grove' 1883 {{PD}}

Pierre Puvis de Chavannes – ‘Sacred Grove’ 1883 {{PD}}

Dear Taurus, you are SO OVER keeping secrets, ignoring important matters, denying reality, throwing tantrums–you KNOW how destructive those choices can be–and yet here you are, the honest, trustworthy bull, and you have to decide: will you embrace a passion that requires you deny what you find sacred, or will you honor the values in place and mourn the passion that could’ve been? That’s a lousy choice to have to make–so don’t make it. You have the option of openly recognizing the conflict your passion engenders (remember, no more secrets!) and then finding avenues to healing those places where the values are at odds with what you desire. This isn’t nearly as impossible as it may at first sound, simply because you’ve been seeing the world far too much in ‘either/ or’ terms–that’s the way you sorted things out successfully before, but this time you have to take it to the next level, the one that allows you to honor two seemingly contradictory energies in your mind and life by finding the common denominators between them–and one of those is You. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

Born Today 8 May

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You are at the perfect point, dear Taurus, to take highest values, goals, and ideals and manifest them in your uniquely original way–so what is it you want to do? You’ve already spent recent months honing ambitions to a fine point, and one way or another, acquiring the clout to make your desires reality–so what’s that standing in your way? It’s every dark thing, every matter ignored or denied, every issue yet to be hashed out, every bit of suppressed rage over injustice and abuse. You’d think that would make dandy rocket fuel to launch you toward your goals, but instead it ties you down to earth, and limits your reach and effectiveness. Attend to these matters (and truthfully, after the past few years, you may have very little to sweep up here, as you’ve taken care of many of the power imbalances and negative feelings in your life), and there’ll be nothing holding you back from realizing those very admirable ambitions and goals. Strengths this Solar year, through to your next birthday, include an excellent ability to communicate creatively, and a penchant for emotional honesty. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

Born Today 7 May

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'The Rage of Achilles' by Giovanni Battista Tiepolo 1756 {{PD}}

You don’t have to go this far, Taurus, but do make your feelings known. ‘The Rage of Achilles’ by Giovanni Battista Tiepolo 1756 {{PD}}

You may soon feel an emotional crisis coming on, dear Taurus, when inner wisdom, what you thought was solid knowledge, and/ or what you see as your practical attitude fail you spectacularly. Rather than viewing this as a defeat, accept it as a course-correction–you were way off!–and now have the chance to get it better than right. In the Solar year ahead, through to your next birthday, you have the capacity and power to bring about great change in your life, the kind that brings fulfillment of ambitions and desires, but to bring it all to successful completion requires a few things: you must not only tend to what you’ve been ignoring or in denial about, you must express rage (yes, I said express rage!) should that be something you’re holding on to; you must find a way to blend into or at least make peace with the social circle; and you must treat both relationships and finances as if they need your attention right now–because they do. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

Born Today 6 May

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'Gartentor in Schleiden' Fritz von Wille 1909 {{PD}}

‘Gartentor in Schleiden’ Fritz von Wille 1909 {{PD}}

You’ve made the changes, dear Taurus, that you thought would re-shape your world–and perhaps those changes did–now what? Recent shifts may have almost felt like the end of the world, but what they really constituted was an entre to ambition and desire fulfillment–so the question becomes, can you get ‘there’ from ‘here’? Yes, you can, but only after addressing the twin gatekeepers of ignored or denied issues, and the need to live your life in accordance with your true, highest values. This coming Solar year, through to your next birthday, you will be required to align values with real-life–which means you must live to the standard that’s truly meaningful for you, not the one you were taught to honor, and not the one you have been going around saying (or thinking) you honor, but the one that springs directly from who you are as a person. Then, you must apply that authentic value system to dealing with all those things you’ve been putting off, hoping they’d go away. Do this, and almost without any effort on your part, you will see form a clear shot to realizing your dreams. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

Born Today 5 May

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It's in the air, Taurus. Isaac Israëls - 'Windvlaag' 1894 {{PD}}

It’s in the air, Taurus. Isaac Israëls – ‘Windvlaag’ 1894 {{PD}}

Change is in the air–you mean it this time, dear Taurus–but there’s something you need to handle first, before you’ll be able to shape your material situation (and the power situation behind it) as you’d like: you must deal with every ignored, denied, or hidden issue that lingers in your life–and it may be the details of these issues, the small bits and inconsequentials, that trip you up. What to do? Do not hesitate to measure each and every thing in your life, every corner and portion, against your highest values, and your life priorities, including your need, in whatever form, for a mate and home–if these fall short for you, this coming Solar year, through to your next birthday, will be glum indeed; and do know that to truly be yourself you must pursue your ambitions and desires, and vice versa, that to successfully fulfill desires and ambitions you must be completely and uniquely yourself. That’s all there is to it–that, and be willing to accept new facts as they come along–let them change your idea of what’s smart, if it’s appropriate. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

Born Today 4 May

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Fighting and struggle needn't be in your vocabulary this year, Taurus. Édouard Manet 'Emilie Ambre as Carmen' {{PD}}

Fighting and struggle needn’t be in your vocabulary this year, Taurus. Édouard Manet ‘Emilie Ambre as Carmen’ {{PD}}

This coming year, dear Taurus, you may be feeling like opportunity has already passed you by–but that would be inaccurate. You really just charged forward, or made assumptions, or approached a possibility without taking careful note of the nuances of the thing–and so kind of trampled it beneath eager Taurean hooves. That’s not the end of it, though; you are on the road to real, serious change, and to the potential resurrection of a situation, structure, or set-up that you’d like to see come around again. What must you do to make it happen? Act spontaneously, on instinct–no plodding over-mulling for you this Solar year, through to your next birthday; remember as you explore potentials that much of your opportunity is about who you are–to forget your role in the mix is to sabotage yourself; and if you are unsure of anything, look for wisdom and guidance from–though it sounds like a cliche–a teacher (formal or informal), spiritual guide, or ‘foreign’ source that can give you a different perspective. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

Born Today 3 May

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They look normal to me. Paul Cézanne, 'The Large Bathers' 1906 {{PD}}

They look normal to me. Paul Cézanne, ‘The Large Bathers’ 1906 {{PD}}

‘Expansion’ is your watchword this coming Solar year, through to your next birthday, dear Taurus, but what does that mean for you? You’re going to gain in matters of the House where Jupiter (13 Leo) is now transiting–and you’ll see some significant endings related to matters of the House where this Full Moon falls (13 Scorpio), endings that may open the way to bigger and probably better, arriving through Jupiter’s current venue. But as with all good things, too much really can be an issue–and add to that, Jupiter shows no discretion in what it makes bigger–should it fall in your natal 1st of body, say, it may expand the exposure of the personality to the public (publicity!) but also your butt–the moral being, be sure to look at both sides of the coin, all possibilities, because contrary to our usual mindset, we don’t always want more. Another negative this year: resources for wisdom, and your own sense of practicality, are strained to the limit (in this case, it’s Jupiter’s fault); but this year you also have big positives in showing a unique ability to solve long-ignored problems, to act appropriately when responding to instinct, and a talent for getting ahead while others seem mysteriously stuck in place. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

The Sabians for the Full Moon 3 May 2015

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"Sommerdag_ved_Skagens_Sønderstrand" (Summer day on Skagen's southern shore) P.S. Krøyer 1883 {{PD}}

“Sommerdag ved Skagens Sønderstrand” (Summer day on Skagen’s southern shore) P.S. Krøyer 1883 {{PD}}

The Sabian is, ‘Telephone Lineman At Work Installing New Connections’ That tells us that what reads to us as an ending (the FM) is really making room for better communications, possibly with others, but most definitely with ourselves. We are finding out about who we are, seeing connections within our own psyches that we never saw before, and this necessitates the installation of new ways of creatively bridging our thoughts and experiences; with fresh ways of seeing and thinking come fresh ways of realizing our purpose—the new connections are meant to show us what was there all along, but which we’re only now beginning to understand, see, embrace, or connect, one thing to another.

The Sun for the Full Moon is, ‘On The Beach, Children Play While Shellfish Grope At The Edge Of The Water’ Use of the word ‘grope’ is very unusual; it implies, again, evolution (“at the edge of the water”) and a growing consciousness. The image says we may, in the greater Universal sense, not even have crawled out of the oceans yet, in terms of understanding—or maybe it says we are still like children at play, lacking an awareness of the underpinnings that allow our (relatively) carefree attitude. In any case, this illumination adds to our burgeoning ability to see and measure our own progress, and to give it meaning.

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Born Today 2 May

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Grab that spotlight, Taurus, even if you're naked! 'Nude in Dappled Sunlight' by Frederick Carl Frieseke 1914 {{PD}}

Grab that spotlight, Taurus, even if you’re naked! ‘Nude in Dappled Sunlight’ by Frederick Carl Frieseke 1914 {{PD}}

You may have to fight to get the spotlight this coming Solar year, through to your next birthday, dear Taurus, but once you grab hold of it, it’s all yours, and your fame, of one kind or another, will spread much farther than you might anticipate. This is great, in that what you do becomes known, you find needed partners, people see who you are and what you’re capable of–it’s free publicity–but it’s also got a down side: people see what you do and who you are, not just what you present to them, or want them to see. If you’re not bullet-proof (and who is, really?) this might give you a moment’s pause; use that time to erase contradictions, take a stand, put things right. It won’t necessarily be an easy year for you, but resources, especially emotional ones, should be reasonably abundant, and be prepared: inner wisdom and the practical side of your nature will be unduly stressed in spite of any preparations you make. Still, you can get a huge boost if you play it well. Happy Birthday, Taurus, and good luck!

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